SURROUND YOURSELF WITH PEOPLE WHO WANT THE BEST FOR YOU
There are many times we all want to be friendly and nice. But being friendly and nice will never challenge you to move forward. I disagree that we should surround ourselves with people who have same feathers because it is not challenging, it is not nutritional to our personal growth and it makes us dumb in some sense.
and this is the best thing I have learned in life..that not everyone around us are contributing something good in ourselves and to our community. Because surrounding yourself with those who want the best for you will definitely make the world a better place for everyone around you.
So its best to shake off the people that never contribute to your development. Even if they are your family. Those people who just talk shit when you’re not around. Those who pretend to be nice to you. Those people who use you. Those people who uses their power to destroy you. Those people who gossip. Those people who complains alot. Those people who think they are highly better than you.Those people who is not happy when you succeed on small and big things. Those who fake a smile once they heard you got a big break but deep inside they think you are stupid to deserve it.
Surround yourself with people that want the best for you and not those who makes you think you are worse and a failure.
Those people who will push you until you make it. Those people who never exploit your privacy and those who never use your weakness to their own benefit. Those people who encourage you to become a well civilised person in your community. Those people who will challenge you to be the best person for yourself. Those people who will not close their eyes when you do something stupid but will definitely help you restrain yourself. Those people who will not be afraid to tell you where to walk when you are blinded. Those people who will teach you to be of service to others. If you have these people. You are rich..