For all the BASHERS! THE CHRISTIAN BASHERS, THE JEALOUS BASHERS, OFW GOSSIPERS whom in 2010-2017 YEAR CALLED ME prostitute, demonized, jezebel, home wrecker and not born again, ugly and worst mother, worst woman, divorcee and judged me because of my parents.
GOOD LUCK TO ALL OF YOU!
The more you spoke those words, the more you showed HOW IMMATURE YOU ALL ARE. The more you poked my wound show how irresponsible you were.The more you talked behind my pain revealed how emotionless you were. The more you did say those words to me, the more you showed how STRONG I BECAME. YOU DID NOT KNOW MY DAILY STRUGGLES. YOUVE JUST HEARD OF it. STILL I FORGIVE YOU because YOU ARE NOT WALKING IN MY SHOES-. This does not point just out individual, I was also there. But I learned to ask forgiveness directly to the person.
You did not know how my pain was because you did not have empathy for my situation. You did not listen when I was in pain, You did not come when I was alone, You did not call when I was in my worst times. You did not feed me when I was crawling in hunger. You did not look after me when I was almost gonna die. You did not see the tears I cried in the darkest rooms of my house. And you did not know how much I felt when I thought everything was truly broken and irrepairable.
when I was in my deepest sorrow, I was comforted not on your side. But in the arms of the people who truly care without religion.
SOMEONE ELSE DID LISTEN. WITHOUT A JUDGEMENTAL WORD!
Thank you for showing me how God make things possible through your lives. You have been an instrument for me to know that there is STRENGTH within my soul. LASTLY, THANK YOU FOR TELLING ME THOSE WORDS. I FOUND OUT HOW WONDERFUL AND POWERFUL IMPACT I HAVE DONE IN OTHERS LIVES.
I write this with the intention to remind you that NO ONE has the right to say things against a person without knowing who they are. Regardless if a person commits evil things and you personally know it. YOU CAN EITHER GET HELP FROM AUTHORITIES IF THE CRIME COMMITED WAS AGAINST THE LAW or if it is SPIRITUAL, then pray with the person. You dont help the worst storm to gather more broken souls byt gossiping and spreading the fall of someone else. You have no right to defame somebody and pass what you know to other people. Your reckless tongue may be responsible for others fall, not for their failure but for the fall. Because words can harm a person and can break a person in Million pieces. And all the words you release can never be retrieved. It can leave a trace, forever…………
Remember, if you face someone having difficulties. Do not spread the news to everybody. Do not even push the person to say it infront of everyone else. Give the encouragement and let the person stand back on its feet again. Do not let the person be continually sin. In corrections, lead them with a right advice without poking the wound that they bear. You should be the person to close the wound, and God is the healer. You should be the helper to make someone be whole again!